February 2012
3 posts
in gratitude
Dear Mia,
This week I had the opportunity to write about what To The Other Side of Dreaming meant to me. It was not only an chance to reflect only our relationship and learning as two queer physically disabled Korean-American women of color, but also to really remember what it meant to feel support from so many people. To have community at our backs.
Can you believe we had a “dream...
i carry you with me
dear mia,
my mind has been on what it will take to rebuild our relationship in this new year we have been blessed with. i know there are the pieces around changing behavior, but there is also the need to show you care, to say “i love you”. consistently.
i love you.
when things are rough between us, my instinct is to shrink, to stay out of your way. it’s hard for me to grasp...
open hearts
Dear Mia,
I am thankful for this practice of weekly reflection and sharing with each other. As I talk with loved ones about our relationship, a common thread in conversation is the practice of vulnerability. It is difficult for me to wrap my head around the idea that “sharing our hearts” is part of relationship work and me being more vulnerable is something you want from me.
I have...